I don’t exist, at least in the same way I have existed before. You won’t recognize me; I’m hiding out. I am a thick, sturdy, massive tree and maybe I am folding someone deep inside me or around me, or in my sturdy limbs high up into the rich, blue sky. I won’t tell you. I have disappeared because this is where I want to be. I don’t know if I will come out of hiding sometime or will stay behind these thick brown roped off curtains I made myself that contain me; comfort me. If I am hidden no one will steal my heart or break it into shards of mirror glass and take advantage of me.
Maybe my silhouette or the swing of my wiry tree hair show as the wind passes by my burlap sap and brown cloak. I intend to blend in with others, or maybe hide behind them for as long as I choose; for as long as I need. I felt a lot of things that I don’t feel anymore.
It’s as if I am out of my body looking in, trying to remember who I was and why I was that way. My heart was way too open, and too big for my body. My emotions were on overdrive, my thoughts obsessed with sympathy and kindness. I sat up once, curled into myself, sobbing. This was not my fault, these were conflicts I should not have been allowed to witness. This was NOT something I did; I am innocent. Something, somebody should have been there to protect me, to draw me back out of the wind, to rescue me but no one did. This attack felt like a tsunami or a tornado.
My eyes peek out behind the outline of my shadow. They dart back and forth, to the left, to the right and then they close. It is all black and rosy and peaceful when my eyes are closed. I choose not to see anybody. I am now a tree that has stood proud and tall with missing branches from the high winds; limbs cut off, dangling in the middle between life and death. Too many people in this world judge others, that’s not how life is supposed to be. Sit with me on the grass and listen.
Life is hard, we all know that. At my age I have experienced hardship as well. There is no age limitation on pain, physical and emotional chronic pain. Back off, please don’t try to touch me; I can almost feel you near me and I don’t want to. I will shrink and cringe if you approach me. I will go inside out.
I have helped you from my heart but that same heart is no longer here. It cracked into bits and never put away. It was not like a picture puzzle; the pieces don’t fit in the right place anymore, and they won’t. Once you have lost your heart, or it has cracked, your heart will never beat in the same way again. You will skip a beat or you will have an extra irregular beat but it doesn’t matter. It doesn’t take away the love that was in your heart; I am protecting my heart. You can also feel that you are being hit, again and again, until you gasp with pain and have trouble taking a breath. I am a tree in a blizzard, fighting to stand strong, my limbs are moving, my bark is now unattached, flying into the air, everywhere but home to me. You can still see the tree but it is not the same. I tried to show you who I was but you left, not noticing that the tree you once loved was now completely different. You walked away.
i am like a tree ,but i am just a twig! don’t step on me i will break.water me and i will grow!
One of the amazing thing about trees is their resilency: the ability to bend in the wind; to regrow limbs that have snapped off; to reach higher and further; to survive dispite the odds. Trees will twist in the blizzard, but when the snow tornadoes clear and the sky becomes winter blue again, the core of that battered tree, stripped of bark and limb still stands as a testiment to strength of spirit and will. Even if the tree becomes a shadow of it’s self; a stump; an outline against the grey sky, it leaves behind memories that it once stood proud.
You are reslient; you are strong; your compassion and passion are such that you will never be completely invisible to others and to yourself.
What a great post. I could feel your raw emotions while reading it. This story is a great analogy for what so many of us experience all the time. I too, feel invisible to many people.
Just as long as we don’t become invisible to ourselves.
Wow. You are really a great writer. This is of course very dark, and makes me feel sad, but seems like it would be cathartic to write. You have such a talent for sure. The descriptive way you put it out there, really gets into your soul. Thanks for sharing!