There has been a fair amount of joy and pain in my long life. One needs to learn to accept that from the beauty of childhood to the path of adulthood. It is the tipping point, like a seesaw that sways you from very young to adult. It’s not always a smooth landing, it is not supposed to be; sometimes the landing can jar you completely and you end up feeling pain. Do not despair. There is always a reason.
You will learn that not every day is wonderful and gratifying. Because when you are young, it’s unlikely to have a very bad day. You may have a stressful day with homework and commitments but these earlier years, they are magical. I try to tell this to my son and daughter but I know they won’t listen; I didn’t listen at their age either. There are some things in life that can’t be taught. You must discover them on your own: Wisdom. Self-esteem. Your place in the world. Connection.
Clasp your hands together, gently, close your eyes and breathe deeply. Allow yourself the time, the solitude, of silent gratitude. We are here in this lifetime to understand, to learn, to focus. We are here to help each other, to seek kindness from within, to share that with the world.
Much of my past life I suffered from anxiety and pessimism. As I was blessed with age, the gray strands of hair, the tiny wrinkles around my eyes have given me the opportunity, the knowledge to learn, to be able to sigh deeply with knowledge and greater understanding. The choice has always been mine. I stand now, looking in my mind’s eye, smiling widely, happy to appreciate what I see, who I am, more importantly who I have become. Appreciate every day, be thankful for your gifts, your blessings. Let your heart be open to nature and to blessings and wisdom, to the ways of the world in peace and harmony, starting from within. Trust the world around you, but most importantly, trust yourself.
Laurie, This is a lovely, supportive and encouraging piece of writing. Alice
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Thanks so much, Alice. I reread it and don’t usually do that with other things I write.
Warm wishes, Laurie https://hibernationnow.wordpress.com
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If everybody saw life as you see it, there would be so many more contented people around us. Accept the hand that life deals you and seek out the good in it.
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Laurie, This little post says so much, you are such a wonderful writer and I love when your thoughts make it to paper. I am sharing this on facebook I love it so much.
mo
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I am so honored, Mo. It is all true and all of it has been learned. Thank you!
Warm wishes, Laurie https://hibernationnow.wordpress.com
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Absolutely! This sojourn here on this planet is about learning through tests. Wisdom comes through pain and difficulty, not pleasure.
Lovely, thoughtful post.
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This is beautiful! We should all learn to trust ourselves!
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thank you so much for reading this. I really liked it too!
Warm wishes, Laurie https://hibernationnow.wordpress.com
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i am sorry i missed last weeks carry on tuesday, this is so creatively wonderful!
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you can still do it, please do.
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